yup..... aku duk pikir gak la lately ttg harap-mengharap nie... mmg satu bende yg subjektif klau kiter nk perkatakan rite??? tp.. reality nye... this type of thing should be talked coz usually.. byk masalh yg berkaitan personal life n so on gak ader link ngan masalah menaruh harapn nie....
ok... thing goes like this... smlm... aku baru jer meet kawn aku kat hostel(perindu gak). this hanba allah just mintak tolong aku dgr masalah dier yg aku pikir n classify as major probz gak...
probz is dier nie mcm ader sense that ader sorang hamba allah lain nie suke kat dier... tp thats mmg tak really sure giler... just sense la.. dier pon minat gak la kat person tu... masalah nyer...even dier minat kat person tu.. dier mmg tak leh nk proceed lebih jauh ngan person tu coz dier dah anggap person tu mcm kwn sndiri...
tp dier takut person tu ader menaruh harapan kat dier.... so mmber aku nie berade dlm dilema... aduh!!
above nie is one of 1000 examples yg leh kiter renung reramai.... aderkah kiter penah menaruh harapan pd seseorang?? tak kisah la harapan aper2 pon.. but as long is it a harapan... n aderkah korang sumer sure aper yg korang arapkn dr person tu boleh jd reality(mcm lg jac)???? aper efek yg bakal korang terima if
1-harapan korang itu tercapai?? or
2-harapan korang tu just sekadar angan2 kosong bg person tu?? (tak tercapai la)
aper reaksi korang???? korang penah pikir tak??? byk persoalan yg korang kene jwb n renung kn...
aper yg jd kebimbangan aku is.... klau masalah2 nie will bring lots of troubles kat korang..
it all akn efek study korang, life, personal life also, current social being korang n so on...
mesti korang tak mampu nk control kn...
so.. for me.... dlm conflict mcm nie, u shouldn't give 100% harapan korang pd person tu... jgn sesekali tau!!
dont ever,bahyer giler tahap dewa zaman ais beku... per kater kklau la korang nie ader minat kat sorang ni, just slowly develop realation korang k... slow2 la... jgn gelojoh sgt....
takut terlepas??? yer la.. klau korang treat operson tu well, pandai jg ati, perasaan, jiwa n raga dier... mesti la dier cair mair ngan korang.... so... tak kn lari bukit bendera di kejar rite??? huhuu
so.. think bout it k....
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